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Husband cuckold sucks dick. You're IN. Next step is to get her to lick your ass hole! How do i spank my girl the money shot! Or bend her over a table, tie her wrists behind her back, make her stand on her toes, and feet six inches apart, place a rolled up piece of paper in her mouth, and tell her if the paper falls from her mouth, she'll get an extra smack, and if her heels touch the floor, she'll get an extra smack. Start off with twenty. There's lots of ways to spank, have fun!

When you're both in the mood, and ONLY when you're both in the mood, ask her if she's been a good girl. If she says yes, say "are you sure? I don't believe you" until she says no. When she says no, tell her that she's a naughty girl.

Get into any position where you can reach her ss, for extra comfort ask her to lie on her tummy and then lie facing her. If you want you can put your spare hand near her face so How do i spank my girl can hold it. So long as a woman can answer that question in the How do i spank my girl, how her husband spanks her is largely irrelevant. For a woman, what happens in her mind is far more important that what happens to her bottom!

I know that i do not hold any animosity toward my go here. I do have a sense of calmness that i dont remember having before. On the other hand i am still kinda defiant really.

So How do i spank my girl opinion does matter more. I dont understand how one spanking could begin to change so much. We have been married 20 years and together longer than that….

Is this just the natural progression? Apparently your husband gave you exactly what you needed. He made you submissive without breaking your spirit. First spankings change the dynamics of relationships.

Xxxza Rambo Watch PORN Videos Dirty sex. If you really want to step outside of the box, then you could try incorporating spanking into sexual roleplay. Have her lay across your lap, and spank her, increasing the pressure each time. She could put on a plaid miniskirt, and you could wear a suit, for example. And to think, just an hour ago I had introduced him to my boss!!! It was weird, but definetly awesome. Any other experiences like this? Surprised you didnt stab her in the stomach when she laid across you. Before you even get started with a little booty-play, take a moment to realize just how far back spanking actually goes. Arya, I reacted just as you did. Then realized these were real people. They sacrifice their own safety to please a man who is just an overgrown child. The men seem to think that they are the only ones who matter. The woman that cross your life fear you. Your way of thinking seem to be the same one of bullies and abusers. Hitting solves nothing. I love the argument that some give concerning spanking is not hitting. Um…yes, it is. You just try to give it another name. A rose is still a rose …. Also, since the relationship is consensual it makes no sense to call it abuse. Also, the only reason why a woman would accept to enter in this kind of relationship is if the man is giving her the best sex she ever had by that I mean the roughest sex she ever had and doing it 1 hour straight every day. But, if the guy goes overboard and causes permanent damage or is about to you can bet she will use it, she might even sue him in court. Most women are naturally submissive, but thanks to the media, feminism, and modern society, they have been turned into fake men, the roles have been reversed the men now are the submissive ones are the women are the dominant ones. Most women who lead their man are miserable because it goes against their biology. I do agree with the sex after spanking—him taking me as he pleases reminds me of my place. For further punishment after my spanking, he brings me to the brink of orgasm over and over, but will not let me have release. I am not allowed to do myself, or I will get spanked again much harder than the first time. This sounds hot. I definetly wouldnt consent to that from just a guy im dating though. Husbands get these priveleges. I am glad you mentioned sex after discipline. He places me on my knees, with my face to the floor and my hips up. I repeat affirmations and he fucks me. I agree with one of the earlier comments. My fiance never has sex with me after my punishment. Well, not immediately anyway. Most of the time he spanks me right as soon as I deserve it and then puts me into the corner, or just simply pulls my panties back up and continues to do whatever we were doing before he spanking. Does anyone know of any decent videos portraying this concept? Some people are kinky, and like spanking as funishment if done in certain ways. But that same spanking can be transformed into real punishment if done with excess. However, the sex muddies the water completely in terms of action-reaction. Among them may very well be the possibility of spanking. As discussions over the past quarter century on the web clearly reveal, more than a few women still expect men to exert some degree of control over their lives. Most certainly, large numbers of people are consistently following the drumbeat of advice offered by experts. All of the foregoing suggests that, underneath the cultural shift, biological forces are still at work in the lives of many women. It just seems that nature is often at odds with nurture these days. A great comment — I really appreciate your perspective here! Would you, maybe, interested in doing a guest post on Spanking in a successful relationship? Explaining the role of spanking is a successful relationship is easy. It involves giving a woman what she needs, when she needs it, whether she wants it or not. Usually, this proves to be more art than science. Of far more importance was a general awareness that, given the right set of circumstances, it would likely happen. Then, as now, there was much more talk about spanking than actually doing it. Even portrayals on television and in the movies of the period showed it only occurring when a woman became exceptionally difficult or far exceeded the bounds of expected feminine behavior. More difficult is achieving a successful relationship. I told it was nonsense and warned her not to slap me again. When she did just that, I took her over my knees and bared her bottom for a good, hard spanking. During the spanking she made a lot of fuss and cried, but after the spanking we got together and she sobbed in my arms and apologized, because now she knew that I was not having an affair — if I had I would not have spanked her, and she knew that. The spanking had a good effect, and it was not her last spanking. Witnessing a haughty woman losing her composure over his lap can be thoroughly empowering. At the same time, the woman being disciplined is undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. While she may not love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on her vane notions of superiority. The moment that both the man and the woman realize that the man controls the woman over his lap can go along way towards preserving their relationship. For while a woman can easily fall out of love with a weak man, the same woman with a richly deserved sore bottom does not so easily stop respecting him. First, I resent having to teach him. I wrote it with these situations in mind…. The one I thought might be right turned out to be just another manchild anyway. I think I might be misinterpreting self-centered ness for dominance. Among the biggest mistakes either a man or woman can make in a relationship is expecting spanking to hold a relationship together. This can be like trying to make a jellyfish the centerpiece in a table setting. Obviously, not only is the creature out of place, its presence within the environment is likely to cause other problems. Instead, disciplinary spanking works best as a problem solving mechanism. In many ways, it is like a specialized tool in a workshop. It may sit there for days, even weeks or months, and even years, and never be used. Then, along comes a project for which no other tool quite works as well. By nature, some women require being spanked more often than others. Some even desire it. Nevertheless, in most marriages, its use is best reserved for resolving thorny, sometimes otherwise unresolvable, issues that threaten the stability of the relationship. A more mature woman is better off finding someone interested in HER, for who she is, rather than seeking out a disciplinarian. On the other hand, as was the case with my then still teenaged future wife, there are times when seeking out a boyfriend to also serve as her disciplinarian can be appropriate. Much of this has to do with time and place. She was also aware that she would require being spanked even after she married. It is also worth remembering that my wife and I began dating at in an era when young women could still be legally spanked by their parents until their 21st birthday. It was also at a time when the spanking of young women was still widely accepted. Nor was he alone in that belief. To a large extent, those days have passed. In fact, women are marrying at a later age than at any other time in at least a century. Not only that, but the husbands they choose tend to be closer to their own age than any other time since demographic record keeping began. This presents a new set of challenges for couples. While I cannot speak from firsthand experience or any inside knowledge, I can see where dating sites might attract desperate people having difficulty establishing relationships with co-workers or people they otherwise encounter in their daily lives. It would not surprise me in the least to discover that, while there are most probably a number of exceptions, many men on these sites have a history of failed relationships and romances. It might not even be an exaggeration to suggest some might even be classified as misogynous predators. As with resolving other difficulties in life, if one search pattern is yielding nothing beneficial, it may be time to try something else. How to properly spank your wife! Has any one explored, or know of any one who has investigated,, the conjecture that Feminism is mostly about freeing women from the rule of men, so that they may be ruled — and far more harshly — by other women? Just as Communism killed more workers and peasants than Tsarism ever did, we see Feminism making women alot more unhappy than there were in allegedly patriarchal times. While I do not claim to be aware of the full panoply of published academic inquiry, the theory of female-female subjugation sounds like a fascinating topic for a dissertation. In a parallel observation, I have argued that feminism opened the door to the exploitation of women by corporations. This became of particular concern with the rise of single parenting. This, in turn, has also led to some debilitating economic and social phenomenon. Ok so I stumbled on this site by sure accident…also i find Experienced Husband to be pretty darn knowledgeable on the subject as a whole. I agree he would make a great guest on this site. I am 40 something. I have been married to the same man for 20 years. He is a great man and I truly love him. Our kids are grown and out of the house. Finding ourselves empty nesters we moved to a totally new location. We should be smothered in newness…but some how I have become well…less than content. I have always been kinda a brat really. Im one of those that dont take kindly to being told anything. Also, i am very much passive aggressive in nature. I have pretty much always been this way really. But now living in a new location i do not have my support system in place…and my husband is getting tired of my disposition. Recently we nearly parted ways which is what i dont…let me say it again…Dont Want! I really want to be better.. I brought up domestic discipline to him. Believe me when i said yes, i swallowed hard saying it. Now i find myself almost affaid. I have never been submissive to anyone or anything in my life! I dont know if my husband would actually go through with it but i do know that now knowing the possibility is on the table.. I really do love him and i want him to love me as well. I feel like i cant change my thought pattern on my own. His wife is a brat…he is quite aware of that. Hi, sorry for answering you so late here -just saw this! And please let me say these were not petty arguments, these were actually major hiccups in our relationship. The next step we took was to make a short list of rules. There are the basics…no disrespect, no disobedience, no dishonesty but also things he wants done by a certain time and a certain day. Also i have 2 that are really about taking better care of myself like, taking walks and pretting my fingers and toes. I find myself nervous…i know that in 2 days he is going to spank me. I can tell you there was no excitement on my part.. Will he be able to do this? Well this was almost 2 weeks ago. I did not change my mind. I realized that i was more affaid of losing my husband than i ever was of being spanked by my him. I actually ended up being spanked twice. The first was about 10 with his hand. Afterwards he laid with me on our bed and comforted me. We got out of bed, I went to the restroom. When i came out he was standing in our living room a bit perturbed. There laying on our dresser was his belt. I was in shock. My stomach sunk and my heart raced…he was serious. He told me to bend over the bed…which i reluctantly did…scared to death. Btw, i am wearing babydoll pjs…they are thin and i have nothing under them. He pulls down my pj shorts exposing my bare bottom and proceeds to whip me with his belt. After about 30 swats i was in tears…he continued a few more until i was not fighting anymore and sobbing. Afterwards we again laid in bed and he comforted me. All i could do was cry. He told me that all was forgiven and that he loved me very much. I told him that i love him to and that i was very sorry for being a brat all these years. He said that from now on that was going to change. Well you can say i was baptized in fire. And so begins our dd lifestyle. Thank you for having this site. I really needed an outlet to talk…after all this is all new to me. Quite possibly I only seem knowledgeable because I am old enough to have grown up at a time when wives and older daughters could still be spanked without someone calling for police intervention. While not necessarily as widespread as some might believe, the practice of over the lap disciplining of a difficult female was so accepted that my wife and I discussed it fairly early in our dating relationship. More specifically, I wanted to know how she felt about being spanked at her age. Not only could young women be legally spanked by their parents until their 21st birthday, spanking per se was not considered abusive. Neither had it been saddled with the Freudian innuendos that hampers its administration today. However, even today, once a couple can look beyond the social taboos and get past any initial awkwardness, spanking becomes surprisingly natural. Properly done, it has a flow and and a rhythm that brings a couple closer together. Although she still dreads it, my wife says she feels cleaner inside after having her bottom paddled. So long as a woman can answer that question in the affirmative, how her husband spanks her is largely irrelevant. For a woman, what happens in her mind is far more important that what happens to her bottom! I know that i do not hold any animosity toward my husband. I do have a sense of calmness that i dont remember having before.. On the other hand i am still kinda defiant really. So his opinion does matter more. I dont understand how one spanking could begin to change so much. We have been married 20 years and together longer than that…. Is this just the natural progression? Apparently your husband gave you exactly what you needed. He made you submissive without breaking your spirit. I would never treat my girl like that no matter what she does wrong. That girl outta leave you. And move outta state. Anonymous 04 August, Dl 05 January, Please wait The comment field is required. I never told any of my girlfriends about my fetish, although I often made clumsy attempts to engage in spanking play. If they let me, I landed a few gentle slaps to the bottom until I got a curled lip and, "That's just weird. You don't really want to hurt me, do you? I didn't, no. Not really, not unless she wanted it, too, and none of them did. The closest I came to telling anyone was Jennifer, the girl I dated right before Emily. She told me it was sick and made me see a psychotherapist who, I found out later, labeled me in her notes as a sexual sadist. Another heaping of shame from my girlfriend, and a horrifying diagnosis from a professional. You can see why I kept this to myself. The thing is, I was beginning to suspect I wasn't sick. Or, if nothing else, that there were a lot more sick people like me out there. I dated Jennifer during the advent of the Internet, and when she was out of the apartment I'd spend hours in spanking chat rooms or looking at spanking photos. A couple of times I met people, real live girls, who liked to be spanked. I didn't have much else in common with them, but the spanking was amazing. As much as anything, it was the relief of finally exercising my kink with someone other than my right hand and a box of tissues. I wasn't alone!.

The wife becomes calmer. She respects her husband more. There is a realization that domestic tranquility is attainable. Newbies guide to rough sex - Harriet Sugarcookie. I am in my forties and my parents were born in the thirties. Https://catsuit.gold-wow.mobi/video5786-badideve.php are still living and my father has been a preacher for many many years.

At times when it seemed she was getting a little off track, dad would give click the following article this look.

Sometimes she would apologize and other times she just straightened right up. I grew up being spanked by my father and well remember my last spanking from him. My curfew was to be home and in bed before he pulled in the driveway. One night I pulled into the driveway at the same time he did.

It was summer and I had a severe sunburn and so when I got to my room thinking I had escaped being disciplined I only wants to text all my clothes and wrapped up in my sheet because it felt good on the sunburn. Fast forward, I spent 20 years married to a man who absolutely made me insane. He was in charge of nothing and could make no decisions on his own.

Before being married to him I was a very quiet and respectful person, some say I was shy, but I will call it reserved and well mannered. Being married to the wuss of all wusses made me How do i spank my girl to the point of losing my temper, stressed all the time, and disgusted by his advances and disrespectful to him in all manners. I no longer lose my temper and I How do i spank my girl again, I feel protected and safe and loved. I have the deepest desire to please this man who puts me first and never allows anyone to disrespect me like my first husband did.

We had a moment not too long ago where I kind of got a little snarky with him about something and he took me by the arm, placed me over How do i spank my girl knee, lowered my pants click gave me a few good smacks on my bottom. I believe it was the spanking I had just received.

Since then, I have done a lot of reading to figure out what is wrong with me, and concluded there is nothing wrong with me. So I wrote him a long letter for discussion about domestic discipline and how much I really think I need this and how much better I felt after he spanked me. We have discussed it and he is totally open to it, but fears I will resent him for it or that people will think How do i spank my girl is abusive to me.

However, I do feel the need for him to tell me his expectations. He seems so much more decisive and organized than I am. I spent so many How do i spank my girl feeling lost and without purpose or direction and having his strength in my life is like heaven to me now.

Sorry for the long story, but how do I get our relationship to a more satisfying level? I want my husband to feel comfortable that I want this and safe in making it part of our life all the time. A very, very nice comment — sort of like the story of see more life… but How do i spank my girl want to be spanked more, or more regularly? Like a maintenance spanking, basically?

Thank you Constance for replying. I guess I never considered maintenance spanking, although I would accept and respect that completely if he were to do it, but I really feel the need for him to How do i spank my girl me more consistently in response to my behaviors or attitudes that come up from time to time.

I have this feeling it would totally deepen my love and submission to him and would help me reach goals I would like to meet and be the best wife for him.

I believe it would even help me meet any goals he wants to set for me. This authority transferred to the husband after the couple married. I feel quite comfortable here…thank you Constance How do i spank my girl this blog! Anyway in my seach i did come across a letter written by a huband to other husbands.

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It is one of the best i have read and i shared it with my own husband. It reads as follows…. Your wife has gathered up the courage to ask something of you that you never saw coming. Please understand how vulnerable she is making herself simply by bringing up the subject. First, she needs you very much. She picked you for her How do i spank my girl because you have strength that she especially needs. Second, she trusts you. She trusts you.

She needs you. What more does a man need to launch just click for source into action? These are the things that touch the core of our souls and inspire us to be and do whatever it takes to fulfill our responsibility. Take the initiative How do i spank my girl recognize what the needs of the marriage are.

Show some confidence in directing how you and she will live with each other. In How do i spank my girl, many men have abdicated their role as leaders and have taken on a passive, even disinterested position, waiting for the woman to tell them what to do for the relationship.

She needs you to demonstrate that you are in charge. For some, a spanking firmly establishes both your roles. In fact, they really hate it. They want a lover and a leader. Of course, it can become a habit to nag. Perhaps they were raised with parents where the woman had to nag.

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If you are head of the household, take initiative in making things right in the house, the home, and the marriage. Part of that role is insisting that you be treated with respect, just as you should treat her with respect. Sometimes that means correcting long term behavior—like nagging. And when it has been mutually agreed on, spanking is used to make that correction. Spanking is How do i spank my girl discipline.

I also use spanking if she neglects her daily tasks because it keeps the house, her world, and our lives in order. Spanking keeps the chaos at bay. There are things your wife should be doing. You both know it. But she needs your leadership to get her moving. How do i spank my girl

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If she has told you spanking helps her do it, then be grateful you have a definite means of action to improve your lives. Spanking resets her. Some men react meanly with ridicule and reactionary anger.

But what they really need is for us to recognize that they are struggling, face their emotional storm calmly without getting offended, and take action. In a DD relationship, spanking is used to stabilize the woman during these hormonal storms. Many women have written in their blogs about how much it helps them get through the worst of it.

Of course, you have to take an experimental approach. My own wife has suffered from depression and in addition to counseling, getting medication, exercise, and rest, I added spanking. I once spanked her pretty hard three times in one day the closest I came to actually bruising her.

Spanking brings conflict How do i spank my girl an end and helps you move on. I have a rule for myself. BTW, when you do something wrong, be the leader, own up to it, and correct it without anyone telling you.

We husbands are supposed to be the leaders. Spanking your woman, even if she has given overall consent, is not easy. I know I deserve this. I appreciate your doing this for me.

You have to be strong read article to override her How do i spank my girl. Spanking is an intimate activity. It requires vulnerability.

It hurts. It helps. It might lead to sex, but it How do i spank my girl not. It requires your wisdom, restraint, and courage. That is an awesome letter and I will be reading it to my husband tonight hopefully! We had planned to sit down and talk last night but a death in the family sidetracked us. We should have some time away from family tonight and if we do, this will be read for sure! Thank you for sharing!

While they can be How do i spank my girl DD is not about sex. Read more was his responses to others that helped me through thinking there was something wrong with me.

It is also why i had agreed that he would be an excellent guest on this site. I thank them both for helping me through getting started per say. Eh, BDSM is a very How do i spank my girl spectrum. As long as that is left up on the page, I will be sure to avoid leading any partner of mine to it. Yes, there are many trashy How do i spank my girl out there unfortunately — mine is, mostly, just a personal blog about my life… Thanks for the compliment!

Nice and very good point of view — where did you find this? In many ways, the letter is an expanded version of things my wife has said over the decades.

Then, most things I learned about spanking the fairer sex I actually leaned from listening to women. When coupled with spanking, ridicule will turn a woman into a prostitute rather than a wife. Unconsciously, most women chose men they believe can handle them.

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Despite claims that this is a conscious choice, more than likely it has a visceral component linked to survival of the species. The one thing spanking does better just about anything else is get right down to source a woman How do i spank my girl.

Perhaps the biggest surprise for was my was discovering that I still loved her even after all of her How do i spank my girl held secrets were revealed as she confessed them over the years. One episode in particularly memorable. It was the weekend we spent virtually the entire time either naked either in bed talking or with my wife over my knee.

By the time we were through, her bottom was tender, but her soul had been liberated.

Nude camps Watch XXX Videos tumbrl sexy. You have already rated this video! Flag this video using the icons above! You have already reported for this video! Please give the reason for reporting the video Please write the reason! Please copy the code: Anonymous 12 April, Anonymous 01 April, One of the things we did was we made a short list…i think it ended up being 10… of things that really stuck out over our 20 year marriage that needed to be forgiven and forgotten. She used to get spanked from her father note that I do not advocate spanking children here! It is, however, a perspective. As a child, I remember getting in trouble and being called to stand in front of him to accept my spankings. Yet, I never felt abused, but rather I felt loved, protected, and well taken care of. As you read the comments, you see that long discussions have evolved. Click here to read a detailed description , or go to Amazon and click here for more! We use spanking as punishment but most of the time we do it just as a fun thing. She still wants it to be done as if it were punishment. Should we establish some rules for her to follow? Like Liked by 1 person. Hey Jeremy, sorry for the late reply… my opinion: Set up some rules and test it — she will like it!: Like Like. Late replying but we do have some rules. She is usually pretty good at following but occasionally slips up and needs a reminder. She gets a good sound spanking and that reminds her to obey the rules. I always use my hand or a wooden paddle. And it is always done over the knee. We have had some great sex afterwards. I do the normal maintenance and punishment spankings. We even do boot camp where we go to a secluded place. We do this at least once a year where there are multiple spankings. I even have two levels of maintenance I use. Anyway, you and HOH should try boot camp. I can give you some ideas if you want. There is a lot of spanking. I just recently added a new rule to our boot camp. I got tired of pulling two sets of garments up and down and up and down every time I spanked. She is now required for her bottom to remain bare at all times unless we go out. This has helped a lot. It is also good for on the spot corrections. We just got back from a seven day seesion where she was without pants for the full duration and it all went very well. This was not as bad as it sounds. She had a blanket in case she got cold and a portable cushion for her comfort. Like Liked by 2 people. I just came back to my blog, since I had other things to do… The seven day session reads like pure pleasure! Should we punish our wives roughly like giving her rough anal sex that really hert her after spanking or spanking is enough for them? Not difficult at all. Anal sex is for gay men. Men who want to do that to women are wishing she was a guy. The vagina is the proper place for a man to be and no one should not cause injury or pain to someone they love unless they are a sadist with serious mental problems. No, certainly not without asking them. Spanking is one thing, and rape is another. If your wife wants to make love after a punishment spanking, it is of course OK, but you should not force her to do it a way she does not like. Women often want to be taken good care of after a spanking, but do it the way she likes — she has been punished and humiliated enough. Anal sex can lead to you being in diapers for the rest of your life. There is a big difference between the punishment aspect of spanking and the actual bodily harm of anal sex. Would you like a wife who poops herself in bed with you? If not, leave her anus alone! My husband and I enjoy a spanking relationship and are most likely the eldest posters here. Frequency, intensity and urgency all have ups and downs. That means his spankings are not based on selfish desires. That means that she does not too from the bottom. I am disappointed that this was not an immediate reply. Wake up! This is mandatory! If you are not safe and in agreement then it is bad!! A wife needs to feel the strong hand of her husband across her naked cheeks! Only then will she be able to service her husband correctly. Any slut requiring disc, get in touch! The need for explicit consent seems to be largely a generational issue for those coming of age after the s. Prior to that time, while by no means universally practiced, there was an implicit understanding that marriage gave husbands permission to spank their wives. According to the logic of the day, spanking was preferable to bickering and divorce. Most women grew up with at least some experience being spanked by their fathers. Nor were these necessarily pro forma affairs. According to my wife, most women require at least some spanking with a belt for paddle if a man is going to get through to them. Then can be especially true if a woman grew up learning how to endure spankings rather than being made submissive by them. More importantly, unless a woman has lost respect for a man, she secretly wants him to win in any contest of wills. There is security in knowing the man can take charge when he needs to do so. Not surprisingly, later feminist rhetoric frequently incorporated many of the ideas familiar to those originally opposed to 19th century intuitionalized antebellum slavery. Chief among the abolitionist concepts incorporated into feminism is the notion that women are perpetually enslaved by men with marriage being the primary example thereof. It follows, therefore, that spanking is equated in the feminist mind with flogging the slaves. Never mind that women are often numbered among the chief advocates of husbands being allowed to preserve domestic tranquility by putting their wives over the knee for a straightening out. Spanking is bad because men do it. A generation ago, there was even a push to have any woman desirous of being physically disciplined by a man to be declared mentally ill. Late 20th century problems developed with spanking for one simple and thoroughly incorrect reason. It conflicted with then recently passed federal equality legislation giving women equal rights with men. For the most part, while there were abuses, an officially permissive attitude towards spanking promoted social stability. In the early 21st century, thanks in part to domestic violence laws and no-fault divorce, families have become more fragmented and less stable as divorce became more socially acceptable than spanking. While undermining traditional male authority in the home may have been good for some women, a more important question is whether or not it has been good for society. Sorry for the typo. Had I come of age when young women treated being spanked as if were a matter of national security, I might be as bewildered as many men these days. Relatively few members of the younger generations appreciate the paradigm shift following the Sexual Revolution. The subsequent push for gender equality tried to repeal the laws of biology and replace it with legal fiction. Only recently have men and women risked reestablishing once reviled traditional relationships. Of course, old-fashioned marriages have always been around. People are often shocked by how long my wife and I have been together. At the same time, society has a love-hate relationship with marriages like ours. Thanks to thousands of years of evolutionary interaction with men, women are psychologically wired and physically designed to be spanked. That used to be the worst kept secret in bedroom politics. It is also one of the reasons why, when properly administered, spanking can be so effective in straightening out a difficult wife. I agree with the Experienced Husband. Soon she does something wrong, the nerve connections in her behind alert her to be carefull. For this reason, every wife brings to the marriage a willing backside, expecting punishment, sooner or later! The husbands who ignore this, end up divorcing, or having a miserable marriage! A statement need not be universally applicable to be true. The case of tingling backsides was certainly true for women of earlier generations. Once reason was that the connection between spanking and misbehavior was more well established than it is these days. Men have treated women like children for thousands of years. Women have developed Stockholm syndrome as a result of mistreatment but that can be over come. Husbands who want to beat their wives are controlling and usually have a serious sadistic streak which is not mentally normal in any way. The wives are very low in esteem and believe they deserve to be treated badly. It is sad to see really. They cannot reach their true potential as long as they are kept in this situation. She had been verbally abusive toward our child, and my warning to not do it again had gone unheeded. She went over my knee for the warmup, against the wall for the yardstick, and back over my knee for the homestretch. I lectured. She cried. Afterward, we had a very awkward week. She was mad. I became furious that she would go there — as if I was abusing her. I ignored her for three days. We talked it out. Spanking your wife, for real, is no joke. She might shape up or she might ship out. I was thinking if making a contract of things we agree on as far as punishment and behavior.. And what is the protocal on calling your guy sir is it pretty standard.. Even tho this has been a deep dark secret fantasy for me for a long time my husband and I both are new to this and learning and I would just really appreciate any guidance or advice.. My observations may be different from others because I come from an older generation. Nevertheless, some of what I have to offer is still relevant. With that thought in mind, here are some answers to your questions:. Although a popular expression these days, it is misleading to refer to spanking as a lifestyle. More accurately, spanking is a traditional method of resolving marital difficulties that have not been or cannot be settled by other means. Some women need, sometimes even want or expect, more spanking than others. A few generations back it was not uncommon for a woman to enter into marriage with the understanding that she could be spanked by her husband. The catch-all phrase of the day was defraud, which had a broader meaning than it does these days. When women are aroused by being spanked, it is generally on one of two levels. The more superficial level usually this results from the rhythmic spanking of her buttocks. On this level, a woman typically wants the man between her legs just as soon as her spanking is over. The other is deeper and more visceral. It arises from a biological amalgam of being simultaneously dominated and protected while being wanted. Part of it translates into respect. Dawn Michael , who is a certified sexuality counselor and marriage and family therapist with a Ph. He is mulling the use of body restraints, and Ginger root plugs, and searching other options to curb my hesitation. Help me and provide some advice that will help us both. I am sorry for this lengthy msg! Just being thorough. He is my first and only Dominant. If that helps. Hi Brittany, I myself am a disciplinarian in my own relationship where my lady is spanked whenever I deem it necessary. However after a spanking then I am very gentle with her, as should be the case, as afterall she has already paid the price for her misbehaviour and now needs to be forgiven. Your husband though seems to be very harsh in that even after spanking you he still is very rough when it comes to intimacy which suggests that he must not be satisfied with whatever level of spanking he gave you. Any sexual aggression should, in my view, be used up at the spanking stage leaving the intimacy stage as a gentle and loving period to bring things back to level keel. In fact, I have to carry a hairbrush in my purse at all times! Then I get it again at home. My husband usually fucks me pretty roughly after being punished as well. That means he calls me a good girl and he will go down on me! A spanking, for whatever reason, should NOT be brutal. A few fairly hard smacks on the ass are far different from a whipping! I believe the man can, and should be, the HOH without resorting to brutality. A spanking especially a disciplinary spanking should hurt, but not cause actual physical harm to the spankee! Except maybe women who grew up in abusive homes, or have the same bottled up ideas about themselves. Arya, I reacted just as you did. Then realized these were real people. They sacrifice their own safety to please a man who is just an overgrown child. The men seem to think that they are the only ones who matter. The woman that cross your life fear you. Your way of thinking seem to be the same one of bullies and abusers. Hitting solves nothing. I love the argument that some give concerning spanking is not hitting. Um…yes, it is. You just try to give it another name. A rose is still a rose …. Also, since the relationship is consensual it makes no sense to call it abuse. Also, the only reason why a woman would accept to enter in this kind of relationship is if the man is giving her the best sex she ever had by that I mean the roughest sex she ever had and doing it 1 hour straight every day. But, if the guy goes overboard and causes permanent damage or is about to you can bet she will use it, she might even sue him in court. Any other experiences like this? Surprised you didnt stab her in the stomach when she laid across you. Because I definetly plan on doing this again!! I never told any of my girlfriends about my fetish, although I often made clumsy attempts to engage in spanking play. If they let me, I landed a few gentle slaps to the bottom until I got a curled lip and, "That's just weird. You don't really want to hurt me, do you? I didn't, no. Not really, not unless she wanted it, too, and none of them did. The closest I came to telling anyone was Jennifer, the girl I dated right before Emily. She told me it was sick and made me see a psychotherapist who, I found out later, labeled me in her notes as a sexual sadist. Another heaping of shame from my girlfriend, and a horrifying diagnosis from a professional. You can see why I kept this to myself. The thing is, I was beginning to suspect I wasn't sick. Or, if nothing else, that there were a lot more sick people like me out there. I dated Jennifer during the advent of the Internet, and when she was out of the apartment I'd spend hours in spanking chat rooms or looking at spanking photos. A couple of times I met people, real live girls, who liked to be spanked. I didn't have much else in common with them, but the spanking was amazing. As much as anything, it was the relief of finally exercising my kink with someone other than my right hand and a box of tissues. I wasn't alone! Tell her to lay across your lap. And to raise up her bottom for you. Then either kneel down beside her or stand directly over her lower back to spank. A kinkier variation of this pose is to make her hold up your weight while you sit on her lower back, facing her bottom. Or to rest a foot on her lower back. HOW to spank: Spank her bottom gently and slowly while telling her why you are doing it. This can range from playful to naughty. Work up the firmness of your spanks and speed as desired from there..

The source of the difficulty was childhood problem around which my wife and built a fortress-like emotional brick wall.

One swat at a time, I quite literally made her disassemble that wall and How do i spank my girl me exactly what she was hiding. In the process, I also discovered just how vulnerable spanking makes a woman.

Yet, my wife trusted me to do what was best for her and our marriage. Again, for biological reasons linked to survival of the species, women come to loath weak men. Consequently, I would suggest that spanking How do i spank my girl effective with most women.

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The problem is less spanking than it is timing. The question becomes is the right man there for the right reason for that time in her life. When the timing is right, a domestic discipline relationship is born.

He places me on my knees, with my face to the floor and my hips up. I repeat affirmations and he fucks me. I agree with one of the earlier comments. My fiance How do i spank my girl has sex with me after my punishment. Well, not immediately anyway. Most of the time he spanks me right as soon as I deserve it and then puts me into the corner, or just simply pulls my panties back up and continues to do whatever we were doing before he spanking.

Does anyone know How do i spank my girl any decent videos portraying this concept? Some people are kinky, and like spanking as funishment if done in certain ways. But that same spanking can be transformed into real punishment if done with excess.

However, the sex muddies the water completely in terms of action-reaction. Making the punishment now tied to pleasure.

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Punishments should never be associated with pleasure, while funishments can. Understanding the value and place for How do i spank my girl is half the art of good domestic discipline…. If you will cuddle your woman after spanking her as you should then why should How do i spank my girl not fuck her. It is my natural inclination and I follow it. If she is a brat that acts up go here purpose all the time — then you are fucked anyway.

As a horny, spanko girlfriend, my boyfriend knows I love a hard, OTK paddle or strap spanking that leaves welts. We then collapse on the bed with him caressing my hair and gently biting my neck. Your email address will not be published.

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This article tells you how to go about spanking your girlfriend. I have great strength and morals from which I can benefit my partner. Natural Rights As a man, I have a natural and irrefutable right to rule my household as I see How do i spank my girl. It is my natural place and obligation to hand out discipline. Faith in Judgement I believe I have soundly considered the this web page and the punishment due.

I have confidence and faith in my reasoning. I am qualified as a strong-minded man to deliver this judgement and I stand by it irrefutably. Love I care for my girlfriend and wish her to lead How do i spank my girl fulfilling life where she becomes the best possible version of herself.

Decide the punishment Decide a punishment that fits the crime! Determine the time Decide whether to carry out the spanking in the here and now, or schedule it for a future time. Try to avoid spanking in anger, as this emotion can cloud judgement. Speak calmly and clearly and fully explain in detail: Be strong and calm.

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Have her get into position. It's always a good idea if you're being spanked to enjoy it, but the person spanking can get highly aroused too. The closest I came to telling anyone was Jennifer, the girl I dated right before Emily. She told me it was sick and made me see a psychotherapist who, I found out later, labeled me in her notes as a sexual sadist.

Another heaping of shame from my girlfriend, and a horrifying diagnosis from a professional. You can see why I kept this to myself. The thing is, I was beginning to suspect I wasn't sick. Or, if nothing else, that there were a lot more sick people like me out there. I dated Jennifer during How do i spank my girl advent of the Internet, and when she was out of How do i spank my girl apartment I'd spend hours in spanking chat rooms or looking at spanking photos.

Mlf sexy Watch SEX Movies Ameature Sexn. And to think, just an hour ago I had introduced him to my boss!!! When we got back to his place, I could tell Bill was feeling a little frisky… so I expected the usual: Where did you get that idea? And when can we do it again? And My New Fav: Most guys are too afraid to do this to me… would you? Hope this helped! It can only get kinkier from here on out. You will have so much fun picking them out and you'll be coming up with any excuse just to spank her. I love to spank my wife in a G-string or little tiny boy shorts. Then after some swats, I tell her I'm taking down her panties now--that she'll be completely exposed and vulnerable to strong right arm. You get the idea. For me it's foreplay with the emphasis on play. Sit in the middle of the couch, and have her sit next to you on the side of your dominant hand. Get intimate, kissing, touching, etc. Ask her what happens to naughty girls… Tell her that she's gonna need a good spankin'--and you think that you should give it to her right now so she'll know how naughty she can get tonight! Watch and feel her body language and the sounds she makes After you've spanked her a while you can start easy and slow, rubbing and massaging between the spanks, admire her ss and how it's turning such a nice shade of pink, caress her inner thighs, draw your pinky lightly up the crack in her butt cheeks and lightly play with her super-sensitive anus , slide 3 fingers into her wet, wet slit, and press her pleasure button keep your pinky out so you don't give her an infection. Well, if she loves it rough, there are many ways to do it. By giving back the power to the man we can finally bring balance to the sexes. The spanking is only there to regulate her attitude towards the man. For it to work, the man needs to have the necessary traits that make a man what he is Rodney Hand mentions it in one of this posts. I sent the link to this article to my HoH. He is mulling over some issues and its confusing me! This is a loving relationship, He earns a good income, I do not work. He treats me like a Princess in actions and w words, unless of course I break rules. His worst is Disrespect, on ANY level. He wastes no time in addressing disrespect. If we are out, Its far more painful!! Sometimes its a closet or even a port a potty! I usually get a hanky in my mouth, with face held against His thigh, for crying control. Its the punishment levels that involve his belt, hairbrush, wooden or lexon paddle, wooden spoon. This is a punishment for the inconvenience of having to take the time to deliver the otk when we are pressed with whatever we are doing. However, lately, past several months, when I receive the harsher PL, it is not a loving exchange, because He claims that I must be reminded of His Dominance and my submissive place, and it is very rough, painful, and always anal. He holds my head in place until He releases, and I am not released until I swallow. I have a difficult time with this, and as a result, I have begun to hesitate and even struggle against my punishments lately, because my stomach is in knots over what is to follow the punishment! I really seriously try so hard not to, but fear takes hold and I cant help it! He is mulling the use of body restraints, and Ginger root plugs, and searching other options to curb my hesitation. Help me and provide some advice that will help us both. I am sorry for this lengthy msg! Just being thorough. He is my first and only Dominant. If that helps. Hi Brittany, I myself am a disciplinarian in my own relationship where my lady is spanked whenever I deem it necessary. However after a spanking then I am very gentle with her, as should be the case, as afterall she has already paid the price for her misbehaviour and now needs to be forgiven. Your husband though seems to be very harsh in that even after spanking you he still is very rough when it comes to intimacy which suggests that he must not be satisfied with whatever level of spanking he gave you. Any sexual aggression should, in my view, be used up at the spanking stage leaving the intimacy stage as a gentle and loving period to bring things back to level keel. In fact, I have to carry a hairbrush in my purse at all times! Then I get it again at home. My husband usually fucks me pretty roughly after being punished as well. That means he calls me a good girl and he will go down on me! A spanking, for whatever reason, should NOT be brutal. A few fairly hard smacks on the ass are far different from a whipping! I believe the man can, and should be, the HOH without resorting to brutality. A spanking especially a disciplinary spanking should hurt, but not cause actual physical harm to the spankee! Except maybe women who grew up in abusive homes, or have the same bottled up ideas about themselves. Arya, I reacted just as you did. Then realized these were real people. They sacrifice their own safety to please a man who is just an overgrown child. The men seem to think that they are the only ones who matter. The woman that cross your life fear you. Your way of thinking seem to be the same one of bullies and abusers. Hitting solves nothing. I love the argument that some give concerning spanking is not hitting. Um…yes, it is. Part of the traditional arrangement included preteen boys little brothers finding out teenage girls big sisters still got spanked by their parents. Boys might hear their sisters beg, plead, or promise to be good before submitted to a spanking. For the most part these days, boys never seen a girl have to bring her mother the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch. They never hear, much less seen, a teenage sister literally getting the big girl spanked out of her. They certainly have no idea that mothers react a lot like a little girl when they get their bare bottom spanked with a hairbrush. Instead, boys are fed a steady visual diet of men having or wanting to have sex with women. At the same time, in their relationships with women, men on television and in the movies are often portrayed either evil or weak. One recurrent message is only bad men hit women. At the same time, women often tell men what to do. Now, while this form of entertainment may attract women viewer to whom advertisers can sell whatever, it does nothing to tell men how to handle a difficult woman in real life. A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack. She needs a whole bunch of smacks, on after the other so she can feel better afterwards and be more pleasant to be round afterwards. Explaining spanking to a man these days is more complicated that just tell him to smack her bottom a few times. Most of the time, she has to go back to the beginning. That means mothers was well as daughters can be spanked. More importantly your boyfriend needs to know what his spanking you will do for HIM. Again, this means you have to get specific. Because you need rules, you might also be high maintenance. It may also be a sign of immaturity. In other words, you may need to be treated more like a teenage daughter than a wife. If this is the case, admit it. Be aware, there are also dangers in having an ex talk to the current boyfriend. Also, in the end, whatever problems you are having with your current boyfriend will ultimately have to be worked out between the two of you. Otherwise, your current relationship will wind up like your previous relationship. Adding a third person to an already troubled two-person relationship can really complicate things. Among other things, it can create a love triangle that not only turns two former friends into enemies, but also leaves you with neither of them. Thank you for sharing. A lot of the things you say are exactly the way I feel. If I man I feel genuine affection for and respect spanks me thoroughly, I think practically every pleasure center in my brain lights up. All said and done, I feel appreciative that he cares enough to do it. I find myself actually pushing buttons, subconsciously even, to test a man and see if he will punish me. This is like something hardwired in my brain. I wish I could switch it off to be honest. Forget blaming yourself, spankmevb. Like many people your age, you grew up in an abnormal era when compared to previous generations. A little over a decade before you were born, society underwent a dramatic transformation that was at odds with both human history and thousands of years of evolution. The results have left many people born in the late 20th century feeling out of place. Whether or not spanking leads to conception is irrelevant. Being thoroughly seductive, nature is trying to create new life by any means necessary. After sometimes awkward preliminaries, spanking is one of those things that comes naturally. At the same time, spanking promotes stability through love and respect. A woman will respect a man for spanking her when she requires it. While she may not love him as a result, she will respect him for putting her over his knee when she knows it needs to be done. The love part comes in when she is attracted to him before he does it. Unfortunately, that level of concern is equated with abuse these days. Traditionally, women expected men to know what to do. It was probably the biggest open secret on the planet before the s. That is no longer the case. Even though I grew up in an era when spanking was perfectly acceptable, most of what I learned about spanking came from women. Much the same is true today. Only women have to tell men more than was the case a few generations ago. Most men no longer grow up with sisters. They have no idea how hard a woman can be, or should be, hit where she sits down. While this can be a precarious arrangement, it can be done. Nor, is it anything new. As I suggested above, women have always been teaching men how to handle them. The biggest problem today is men are no longer listening. Like Liked by 3 people. If you have not already done so, might I suggest becoming acquainted with primary source late 19th and 20th century feminist literature. These original writings might prove to be a real eye-opener, perhaps even a shock. Why do you think this is effective for girls and not boys? Please explain! You keep mentioning feminism as a sort of loathful thing. I feel like you are using feminism in place of misandry. Feminism at its core is about women having equal rights under the law, equal pay for equal work, etc. While letting my man be in charge is my personal preference, I believe strongly that it should be a choice. I want them to have their choice while I am also free to make my choice. I have a dominant personality that I present to the world and I am physically tough as well. I want him to want to be in control and to want to take care of me. To me, this feels natural. There are other women who desire a man to treat them as an equal in every aspect. There are women who wish to be in control in the bedroom. Feminism is about allowing us all to have the same rights and privileges, including the choice to be in the kind of relationship we want, or no relationship at all. Before puberty, boys and girls tend to be more alike than they are different. Then, along comes puberty. With the onset of this change of life cycle in boys, their bodies begin producing testosterone. With this hormone comes a changes in behavior and physical attributes. Among them is usually increased physical strength and aggressiveness. Those behavioral and physical changes come an increased tendency to treat spanking as an attack. Increased muscle mass, combined with more fight than flight inclinations tend to complicate the disciplining of teenage sons. As a result, parents, and mothers in particular, traditionally resorted to alternative means of disciplining older boys. Problems arise because consistent use of spanking tends to produce more inconsistent results in teenage males than it does in their female peers. This, in turn, further complicated an already difficult time for most parents. It fact they were and still are in some cases. However, the occurrences tend to be more episodic rather than serving as a practical guide for disciplining teenage sons. While teenage daughters still dread it, they nonetheless are more likely than their male peers to submit to it and learn the desired lesson from it. Although this fact of life created a double standard resulting in older daughters being spanked far more often and at a later age than sons, it was once so well understood a few generations ago the parents continued to legally spank their daughters until the approximate age when most young women married. As a result, especially when large numbers of young women married right after high school in the late s, these girls sometimes moved from being spanked by their parents to being spanked by their husbands. One big reason, of course, is young women were already well acquainted with the customary disciplinary drill of the day. On a more practical level, most young women still wore skirts and grannie panties. Once a young woman was over the lap, execution was simply a matter of lifting the hem of her skirt, exposing the necessary area by sliding her panties down, and then spanking it. Because this could be so easily done, disciplinary spankings of young women by mothers, fathers, boyfriends, or husbands were far more common than is the case today. These days, the female disciplinary continuum from preteen, to teen, to woman is more difficult to appreciate because society, and in particular the internet, have largely compartmentalized spanking. While preteen girls may be spanked, so the popular consensus goes, teenage girls should never be spanked. Then, if a grown woman is spanked, it is classified as either erotic or abusive. While it is certainly true that boys get into more trouble on college campuses that do girls, this is nothing new. Young men today would be put in jail for some of the hijinks their great grandfathers perpetrated as undergraduates. Traditionally, unless there was extensive damage, culprits were generally expected to clean up their mess, offer an apology, or otherwise make amends. It is probably worth remembering that, on many campuses, fraternities were not above administering peer justice with a paddle if they wished to stay in the good graces of the college administration. Back then, because paddling was also frequently part of the initiation ritual, appropriate disciplining was to be expected. Alternatively, there was also expulsion. Sometimes, an enterprising dean of students or dean of men would round up the usual troublemakers on campus and, if no one confessed, call the parents of one of the suspects to tell them to come pick up their son. Instead, many colleges have campus police. Since FERPA forbids schools from contacting parents, administrators empower police to treat pranks as crimes. Acquiring a criminal record while in college is one of the downsides of to treating year-olds as adults. Like a lot of things, feminism has a public face as well as a private face. During the past century, feminism has also acquired a history. Few people realize it these days, but late 19th and early 20th century feminism was as racist as was the patriarchy it despised. Yet, oddly enough, the origins of feminism can be traced back to the abolitionist movement. In the background, the movement also wanted ease of divorce, access to education and the abolishment of alcohol. After World War II, it demanded absolute equality for women in all areas of society. This included the supposed right to never be spanked no matter what! While feminism has sought to portray itself as an enabler of women, it is also a victimization philosophy. Women are portrayed as perpetually portrayed as victims. Inevitably, men are the perpetrators. This duality leads on an intriguing, if not totally amusing, conundrum with feminists proclaiming that women can be the equal of any man so long as they are protected from men! Neither does feminism have a history of celebrating diversity among women. In reality, it is very much a lockstep movement. A classic example is a madam running a highly profitable brothel hiring voluntary sex workers! Instead, feminism seems to relish the notion of protecting the illusion of an idealized womanhood rather than dealing with the realities of life. Feminists have a history of relegating noncompetitive women as being something less than a credit to their gender. Currently, this issue seems to trump other considerations. Thus, so long as a woman is pro-choice, it matters little whether she has ties to a political front seeking to eliminate pension plans for schoolteachers most of whom are women or sits on the governing board of a corporation employing sweatshop garment workers virtually all of whom are women. Nor does feminism seem to know what to do with strong women in traditional roles. Two good examples are my wife and late mother-in-law. Although both graduated from universities, they also went on to become wives and mothers. Both pursued professional careers outside the home. For both my wife and her mother, life was a balancing act. Outside the home, they were independent and successful. Nevertheless, both were submissive to their husbands at home. As a result, both women remained married to their first husbands. At the same time, like the madam running a brothel, neither my wife nor her mother would be considered an ideal feminist role model. Perhaps the most insidious thing feminism has done is to attack traditional male institutions without offering a specific and workable alternative to the ensuing chaos it created. For example, the case against marriage closely parallels the opposition to spanking. This approach has become such a joke that yelling and calling the police have replaced spanking as a primary disciplinary tool used by parents with rebellious teenage daughters. Live together. Even have children together, or with someone else. Behave like husband and wife together. Perhaps the fatal flaw in feminism came in creation of the superwomen myth. The results of trying to convince women they can have it all has been disastrous. In requiring women to behave more like men, it defeminized a lot of women. Results have included increased heart attacks and depression in women. This mythology also produced a generation of disillusioned and disaffected children. Have laws and social expectations gotten out of touch with biology? Legally and socially, of course, women are increasingly treated like men. More women than men are getting college educations. Women are marrying at a later age than ever before. This trend is increasing. Biologically, girls are going through puberty at a younger age than their maternal ancestors. This trend has been on a downward slope since the middle of the 19th century. As a result, there is a bigger gap between when girl first become interested in sex and when they are willing to consider making a commitment. At the same time, men have become increasingly neutered. They are portrayed as bumbling idiots in television commercials. Male movie starts are no longer the men they once were. Spanking in real life has become even a bigger no-no. Nevertheless, despite the achievements, women still have many of the same expectations of men as their grandmothers. Instead, women are told to rely on advice offered by experts or paid professionals. Few, if any, young women these days would dare admit to their mother, or anyone else for that matter, that they had been spanked by a boyfriend. The problem of no feminine role models these days in the same as it is for failed marriages. It all goes back to an inability or unwillingness to communication. This has to start at home long before a girl is anywhere old enough to date. Among my base contentions is that if a mother and her daughter can have open and honest discussions about why even big girls sometimes still need to have their bare bottoms spanked, they can talk about anything else. Among them may very well be the possibility of spanking. As discussions over the past quarter century on the web clearly reveal, more than a few women still expect men to exert some degree of control over their lives. Most certainly, large numbers of people are consistently following the drumbeat of advice offered by experts. All of the foregoing suggests that, underneath the cultural shift, biological forces are still at work in the lives of many women. It just seems that nature is often at odds with nurture these days. A great comment — I really appreciate your perspective here! Would you, maybe, interested in doing a guest post on Spanking in a successful relationship? Explaining the role of spanking is a successful relationship is easy. It involves giving a woman what she needs, when she needs it, whether she wants it or not. Usually, this proves to be more art than science. Of far more importance was a general awareness that, given the right set of circumstances, it would likely happen. Then, as now, there was much more talk about spanking than actually doing it. Even portrayals on television and in the movies of the period showed it only occurring when a woman became exceptionally difficult or far exceeded the bounds of expected feminine behavior. More difficult is achieving a successful relationship. I told it was nonsense and warned her not to slap me again. When she did just that, I took her over my knees and bared her bottom for a good, hard spanking. During the spanking she made a lot of fuss and cried, but after the spanking we got together and she sobbed in my arms and apologized, because now she knew that I was not having an affair — if I had I would not have spanked her, and she knew that. The spanking had a good effect, and it was not her last spanking. Witnessing a haughty woman losing her composure over his lap can be thoroughly empowering. At the same time, the woman being disciplined is undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. While she may not love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on her vane notions of superiority. The moment that both the man and the woman realize that the man controls the woman over his lap can go along way towards preserving their relationship. For while a woman can easily fall out of love with a weak man, the same woman with a richly deserved sore bottom does not so easily stop respecting him. First, I resent having to teach him. I wrote it with these situations in mind…. And I knew that telling her might mean the immediate death of our relationship, but I also knew we'd never be perfect together unless I looked into her pretty blue eyes and told this sweet, innocent, beautiful woman that I had a spanking fetish. Let me clarify something: It's not like slavering over cheerleaders, or fantasizing about sex on the beach at sunset. At times, spanking was an obsession, and one made all the more torturous for the shame I felt harboring it. For more than 20 years I thought there was something wrong with me. I thought that if, by chance, someone else felt the same way, then they'd be a dirty old man with a grubby overcoat and bulging eyes. But I couldn't help it. I didn't choose to be kinky in this way, any more than a man or woman chooses to be straight or gay. The way I saw it, homosexuals had their closet and I had mine. Only mine was a lot smaller, and I was the only one in it. I never told any of my girlfriends about my fetish, although I often made clumsy attempts to engage in spanking play. If they let me, I landed a few gentle slaps to the bottom until I got a curled lip and, "That's just weird. You don't really want to hurt me, do you? I didn't, no. Not really, not unless she wanted it, too, and none of them did. The closest I came to telling anyone was Jennifer, the girl I dated right before Emily. She told me it was sick and made me see a psychotherapist who, I found out later, labeled me in her notes as a sexual sadist. Another heaping of shame from my girlfriend, and a horrifying diagnosis from a professional. You can see why I kept this to myself. The thing is, I was beginning to suspect I wasn't sick. Or, if nothing else, that there were a lot more sick people like me out there. I dated Jennifer during the advent of the Internet, and when she was out of the apartment I'd spend hours in spanking chat rooms or looking at spanking photos. A couple of times I met people, real live girls, who liked to be spanked..

A couple of times I met people, real live girls, who liked to be spanked. I didn't have much else in common with them, but the spanking was amazing. As much as anything, it was the relief of finally exercising my kink with someone other than my right hand and a box of tissues. I wasn't alone! Jennifer caught me, of course. I'd driven miles to go to a small spanking party in Washington, DC. It was at someone's house, and it was two days of awesome.

At one point, I was in a hot tub with a How do i spank my girl who acted in spanking films How do i spank my girl the female host, a retired police lieutenant.

But as exciting as that was, I wanted to experience spanking with someone I loved. So she deserves some really good punishment. I spank her naked How do i spank my girl and her buns become reddish.

I love to see them like this. My naughty girlfriend deserved good ass spanking as she was a bad girl. Javascript is turned off in your browser. Some features of this page will not work correctly. Video Url. Games with licking pussy. How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl One recent study revealed that spanking is the 1 kinky sex act that women secretly want to try.

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If you really want to step outside of the box, then you could try incorporating spanking into sexual roleplay. Have her lay across your lap, and spank her, increasing the pressure each time. She could put on a plaid miniskirt, and you could wear a suit, for example. And to think, How do i spank my girl an hour ago I How do i spank my girl introduced him to my boss!!! When we got back to his place, I could tell Bill was feeling a little frisky… so I expected the usual: Where did you get that idea?

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Hqmaturepussy com Watch Porn Videos Asexualcupid. Hitting solves nothing. I love the argument that some give concerning spanking is not hitting. Um…yes, it is. You just try to give it another name. A rose is still a rose …. Also, since the relationship is consensual it makes no sense to call it abuse. Also, the only reason why a woman would accept to enter in this kind of relationship is if the man is giving her the best sex she ever had by that I mean the roughest sex she ever had and doing it 1 hour straight every day. But, if the guy goes overboard and causes permanent damage or is about to you can bet she will use it, she might even sue him in court. Most women are naturally submissive, but thanks to the media, feminism, and modern society, they have been turned into fake men, the roles have been reversed the men now are the submissive ones are the women are the dominant ones. Most women who lead their man are miserable because it goes against their biology. I do agree with the sex after spanking—him taking me as he pleases reminds me of my place. For further punishment after my spanking, he brings me to the brink of orgasm over and over, but will not let me have release. I am not allowed to do myself, or I will get spanked again much harder than the first time. This sounds hot. I definetly wouldnt consent to that from just a guy im dating though. Husbands get these priveleges. I am glad you mentioned sex after discipline. He places me on my knees, with my face to the floor and my hips up. I repeat affirmations and he fucks me. I agree with one of the earlier comments. My fiance never has sex with me after my punishment. Well, not immediately anyway. Most of the time he spanks me right as soon as I deserve it and then puts me into the corner, or just simply pulls my panties back up and continues to do whatever we were doing before he spanking. Does anyone know of any decent videos portraying this concept? Some people are kinky, and like spanking as funishment if done in certain ways. But that same spanking can be transformed into real punishment if done with excess. However, the sex muddies the water completely in terms of action-reaction. Making the punishment now tied to pleasure. Punishments should never be associated with pleasure, while funishments can. Understanding the value and place for both is half the art of good domestic discipline…. If you will cuddle your woman after spanking her as you should then why should you not fuck her. It is my natural inclination and I follow it. If she is a brat that acts up on purpose all the time — then you are fucked anyway. As a horny, spanko girlfriend, my boyfriend knows I love a hard, OTK paddle or strap spanking that leaves welts. We then collapse on the bed with him caressing my hair and gently biting my neck. Your email address will not be published. This article tells you how to go about spanking your girlfriend. I have great strength and morals from which I can benefit my partner. Natural Rights As a man, I have a natural and irrefutable right to rule my household as I see fit. It is my natural place and obligation to hand out discipline. Faith in Judgement I believe I have soundly considered the behaviour and the punishment due. I have confidence and faith in my reasoning. I am qualified as a strong-minded man to deliver this judgement and I stand by it irrefutably. Love I care for my girlfriend and wish her to lead a fulfilling life where she becomes the best possible version of herself. Decide the punishment Decide a punishment that fits the crime! Determine the time Decide whether to carry out the spanking in the here and now, or schedule it for a future time. Instead, many colleges have campus police. Since FERPA forbids schools from contacting parents, administrators empower police to treat pranks as crimes. Acquiring a criminal record while in college is one of the downsides of to treating year-olds as adults. Like a lot of things, feminism has a public face as well as a private face. During the past century, feminism has also acquired a history. Few people realize it these days, but late 19th and early 20th century feminism was as racist as was the patriarchy it despised. Yet, oddly enough, the origins of feminism can be traced back to the abolitionist movement. In the background, the movement also wanted ease of divorce, access to education and the abolishment of alcohol. After World War II, it demanded absolute equality for women in all areas of society. This included the supposed right to never be spanked no matter what! While feminism has sought to portray itself as an enabler of women, it is also a victimization philosophy. Women are portrayed as perpetually portrayed as victims. Inevitably, men are the perpetrators. This duality leads on an intriguing, if not totally amusing, conundrum with feminists proclaiming that women can be the equal of any man so long as they are protected from men! Neither does feminism have a history of celebrating diversity among women. In reality, it is very much a lockstep movement. A classic example is a madam running a highly profitable brothel hiring voluntary sex workers! Instead, feminism seems to relish the notion of protecting the illusion of an idealized womanhood rather than dealing with the realities of life. Feminists have a history of relegating noncompetitive women as being something less than a credit to their gender. Currently, this issue seems to trump other considerations. Thus, so long as a woman is pro-choice, it matters little whether she has ties to a political front seeking to eliminate pension plans for schoolteachers most of whom are women or sits on the governing board of a corporation employing sweatshop garment workers virtually all of whom are women. Nor does feminism seem to know what to do with strong women in traditional roles. Two good examples are my wife and late mother-in-law. Although both graduated from universities, they also went on to become wives and mothers. Both pursued professional careers outside the home. For both my wife and her mother, life was a balancing act. Outside the home, they were independent and successful. Nevertheless, both were submissive to their husbands at home. As a result, both women remained married to their first husbands. At the same time, like the madam running a brothel, neither my wife nor her mother would be considered an ideal feminist role model. Perhaps the most insidious thing feminism has done is to attack traditional male institutions without offering a specific and workable alternative to the ensuing chaos it created. For example, the case against marriage closely parallels the opposition to spanking. This approach has become such a joke that yelling and calling the police have replaced spanking as a primary disciplinary tool used by parents with rebellious teenage daughters. Live together. Even have children together, or with someone else. Behave like husband and wife together. Perhaps the fatal flaw in feminism came in creation of the superwomen myth. The results of trying to convince women they can have it all has been disastrous. In requiring women to behave more like men, it defeminized a lot of women. Results have included increased heart attacks and depression in women. This mythology also produced a generation of disillusioned and disaffected children. Have laws and social expectations gotten out of touch with biology? Legally and socially, of course, women are increasingly treated like men. More women than men are getting college educations. Women are marrying at a later age than ever before. This trend is increasing. Biologically, girls are going through puberty at a younger age than their maternal ancestors. This trend has been on a downward slope since the middle of the 19th century. As a result, there is a bigger gap between when girl first become interested in sex and when they are willing to consider making a commitment. At the same time, men have become increasingly neutered. They are portrayed as bumbling idiots in television commercials. Male movie starts are no longer the men they once were. Spanking in real life has become even a bigger no-no. Nevertheless, despite the achievements, women still have many of the same expectations of men as their grandmothers. Instead, women are told to rely on advice offered by experts or paid professionals. Few, if any, young women these days would dare admit to their mother, or anyone else for that matter, that they had been spanked by a boyfriend. The problem of no feminine role models these days in the same as it is for failed marriages. It all goes back to an inability or unwillingness to communication. This has to start at home long before a girl is anywhere old enough to date. Among my base contentions is that if a mother and her daughter can have open and honest discussions about why even big girls sometimes still need to have their bare bottoms spanked, they can talk about anything else. Among them may very well be the possibility of spanking. As discussions over the past quarter century on the web clearly reveal, more than a few women still expect men to exert some degree of control over their lives. Most certainly, large numbers of people are consistently following the drumbeat of advice offered by experts. All of the foregoing suggests that, underneath the cultural shift, biological forces are still at work in the lives of many women. It just seems that nature is often at odds with nurture these days. A great comment — I really appreciate your perspective here! Would you, maybe, interested in doing a guest post on Spanking in a successful relationship? Explaining the role of spanking is a successful relationship is easy. It involves giving a woman what she needs, when she needs it, whether she wants it or not. Usually, this proves to be more art than science. Of far more importance was a general awareness that, given the right set of circumstances, it would likely happen. Then, as now, there was much more talk about spanking than actually doing it. Even portrayals on television and in the movies of the period showed it only occurring when a woman became exceptionally difficult or far exceeded the bounds of expected feminine behavior. More difficult is achieving a successful relationship. I told it was nonsense and warned her not to slap me again. When she did just that, I took her over my knees and bared her bottom for a good, hard spanking. During the spanking she made a lot of fuss and cried, but after the spanking we got together and she sobbed in my arms and apologized, because now she knew that I was not having an affair — if I had I would not have spanked her, and she knew that. The spanking had a good effect, and it was not her last spanking. Witnessing a haughty woman losing her composure over his lap can be thoroughly empowering. At the same time, the woman being disciplined is undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. While she may not love the man at that particular moment, she most certainly learning to respect his natural authority over her as the pain and embarrassment take their toll on her vane notions of superiority. The moment that both the man and the woman realize that the man controls the woman over his lap can go along way towards preserving their relationship. For while a woman can easily fall out of love with a weak man, the same woman with a richly deserved sore bottom does not so easily stop respecting him. First, I resent having to teach him. I wrote it with these situations in mind…. The one I thought might be right turned out to be just another manchild anyway. I think I might be misinterpreting self-centered ness for dominance. Among the biggest mistakes either a man or woman can make in a relationship is expecting spanking to hold a relationship together. This can be like trying to make a jellyfish the centerpiece in a table setting. Obviously, not only is the creature out of place, its presence within the environment is likely to cause other problems. Instead, disciplinary spanking works best as a problem solving mechanism. In many ways, it is like a specialized tool in a workshop. It may sit there for days, even weeks or months, and even years, and never be used. Then, along comes a project for which no other tool quite works as well. By nature, some women require being spanked more often than others. Some even desire it. Nevertheless, in most marriages, its use is best reserved for resolving thorny, sometimes otherwise unresolvable, issues that threaten the stability of the relationship. A more mature woman is better off finding someone interested in HER, for who she is, rather than seeking out a disciplinarian. On the other hand, as was the case with my then still teenaged future wife, there are times when seeking out a boyfriend to also serve as her disciplinarian can be appropriate. Much of this has to do with time and place. She was also aware that she would require being spanked even after she married. It is also worth remembering that my wife and I began dating at in an era when young women could still be legally spanked by their parents until their 21st birthday. It was also at a time when the spanking of young women was still widely accepted. Nor was he alone in that belief. To a large extent, those days have passed. In fact, women are marrying at a later age than at any other time in at least a century. Not only that, but the husbands they choose tend to be closer to their own age than any other time since demographic record keeping began. This presents a new set of challenges for couples. While I cannot speak from firsthand experience or any inside knowledge, I can see where dating sites might attract desperate people having difficulty establishing relationships with co-workers or people they otherwise encounter in their daily lives. It would not surprise me in the least to discover that, while there are most probably a number of exceptions, many men on these sites have a history of failed relationships and romances. It might not even be an exaggeration to suggest some might even be classified as misogynous predators. As with resolving other difficulties in life, if one search pattern is yielding nothing beneficial, it may be time to try something else. How to properly spank your wife! Has any one explored, or know of any one who has investigated,, the conjecture that Feminism is mostly about freeing women from the rule of men, so that they may be ruled — and far more harshly — by other women? Just as Communism killed more workers and peasants than Tsarism ever did, we see Feminism making women alot more unhappy than there were in allegedly patriarchal times. While I do not claim to be aware of the full panoply of published academic inquiry, the theory of female-female subjugation sounds like a fascinating topic for a dissertation. In a parallel observation, I have argued that feminism opened the door to the exploitation of women by corporations. This became of particular concern with the rise of single parenting. This, in turn, has also led to some debilitating economic and social phenomenon. Ok so I stumbled on this site by sure accident…also i find Experienced Husband to be pretty darn knowledgeable on the subject as a whole. I agree he would make a great guest on this site. I am 40 something. I have been married to the same man for 20 years. He is a great man and I truly love him. Our kids are grown and out of the house. Finding ourselves empty nesters we moved to a totally new location. We should be smothered in newness…but some how I have become well…less than content. I have always been kinda a brat really. Im one of those that dont take kindly to being told anything. Also, i am very much passive aggressive in nature. I have pretty much always been this way really. But now living in a new location i do not have my support system in place…and my husband is getting tired of my disposition. Recently we nearly parted ways which is what i dont…let me say it again…Dont Want! I really want to be better.. I brought up domestic discipline to him. Believe me when i said yes, i swallowed hard saying it. Now i find myself almost affaid. I have never been submissive to anyone or anything in my life! I dont know if my husband would actually go through with it but i do know that now knowing the possibility is on the table.. I really do love him and i want him to love me as well. I feel like i cant change my thought pattern on my own. His wife is a brat…he is quite aware of that. Hi, sorry for answering you so late here -just saw this! And please let me say these were not petty arguments, these were actually major hiccups in our relationship. The next step we took was to make a short list of rules. There are the basics…no disrespect, no disobedience, no dishonesty but also things he wants done by a certain time and a certain day. Also i have 2 that are really about taking better care of myself like, taking walks and pretting my fingers and toes. I find myself nervous…i know that in 2 days he is going to spank me. I can tell you there was no excitement on my part.. Will he be able to do this? Well this was almost 2 weeks ago. I did not change my mind. I realized that i was more affaid of losing my husband than i ever was of being spanked by my him. I actually ended up being spanked twice. The first was about 10 with his hand. Afterwards he laid with me on our bed and comforted me. We got out of bed, I went to the restroom. When i came out he was standing in our living room a bit perturbed. There laying on our dresser was his belt. I was in shock. My stomach sunk and my heart raced…he was serious. He told me to bend over the bed…which i reluctantly did…scared to death. Btw, i am wearing babydoll pjs…they are thin and i have nothing under them. He pulls down my pj shorts exposing my bare bottom and proceeds to whip me with his belt. After about 30 swats i was in tears…he continued a few more until i was not fighting anymore and sobbing. Afterwards we again laid in bed and he comforted me. All i could do was cry. He told me that all was forgiven and that he loved me very much. I told him that i love him to and that i was very sorry for being a brat all these years. He said that from now on that was going to change. Well you can say i was baptized in fire. And so begins our dd lifestyle. Thank you for having this site. I really needed an outlet to talk…after all this is all new to me. Quite possibly I only seem knowledgeable because I am old enough to have grown up at a time when wives and older daughters could still be spanked without someone calling for police intervention. While not necessarily as widespread as some might believe, the practice of over the lap disciplining of a difficult female was so accepted that my wife and I discussed it fairly early in our dating relationship. More specifically, I wanted to know how she felt about being spanked at her age. Not only could young women be legally spanked by their parents until their 21st birthday, spanking per se was not considered abusive. Neither had it been saddled with the Freudian innuendos that hampers its administration today. However, even today, once a couple can look beyond the social taboos and get past any initial awkwardness, spanking becomes surprisingly natural. Properly done, it has a flow and and a rhythm that brings a couple closer together. Although she still dreads it, my wife says she feels cleaner inside after having her bottom paddled. So long as a woman can answer that question in the affirmative, how her husband spanks her is largely irrelevant. For a woman, what happens in her mind is far more important that what happens to her bottom! I know that i do not hold any animosity toward my husband. I do have a sense of calmness that i dont remember having before.. On the other hand i am still kinda defiant really. Rate This Video. You have already rated this video! Flag this video using the icons above! You have already reported for this video! Please give the reason for reporting the video Please write the reason! Please copy the code: Anonymous 12 April, Anonymous 01 April, Tk Wolf 23 January, Sex expert Sienna Sinclaire explains: It's always a good idea if you're being spanked to enjoy it, but the person spanking can get highly aroused too. After years of pretending I was interested only in the occasional erotic swat, I finally had to admit it to myself: Although spankings do satisfy a strong sexual need, they satisfy an equally strong psychological one. For me, too. How many of us are there? Impossible to say. I can tell you that just one of the many spanking subgroups on the adult website Fetlife contains more than 17, members. As for the male-to-female split, I asked Eve Howard. She co-founded of one of the best-known spanking erotica companies in America, Shadow Lane, and has run spanking parties in California and Las Vegas for 20 years. She said: As time went by, I did find comfort in knowing there were others like me, but as I sat on Emily's bed, they all seemed irrelevant because she wasn't a spanko. I knew that for sure. As with every girl I met, I'd dropped hints, used the word "spanking" to get a reaction. I'd gotten none from her. The only question now was whether she'd call me a freak and kick me out. I spoke for a while, explaining that I didn't understand why, that the why didn't even matter anymore. Spanking was a massive part of my sexuality, and that was something she needed to know. When I finished, she furrowed her brow. A sexy thing? When I nodded, she paused for a moment. That was 14 years ago. We married a year later, and our sex life today would shock the neighbors. Once or twice, when we've forgotten to close the bedroom window, I suspect it has. It's not been plain sailing, though, and this isn't the end of the story because a kink is a powerful beast..

Well, this is gonna sound kind of strange… but it all goes back to childhood. Here are a few things to look for: Did she respond How do i spank my girl a noise? Was link positive like a moan or negative like a confused grunt? How did her breathing change after you did it? How do i spank my girl up at her — is she biting her lip, or does she look weirded out?

The answers to these questions should help you figure out if she was into it or not. So what should you do if she is into it? What sort of roleplay? And remember — she can do the spanking too! I had never experimented with role-playing… though I had always wanted to try.

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